I don't like this kind of attitude

I joined this one group of mommies in FB, with intention to gain some knowledge and share experience about our LOs (little ones) .

When I stumble upon this kind of status in the group, it somehow pissed me off.

First, because she is not being thankful that her mother is willing to take care of her LO.

I mean, hey come on! You don't have any idea how hard it is to get a babysitter nowadays! You should be thankful that your mother is willing to babysit your LO, you know? Compared to having to send your LO to daycare like me, I am very envy of you. You have no idea how the daycare babysit your LO. If you are lucky, you will get a good one - which I bet it sure gonna cost you >700/month. Or if you are not lucky, you will get a terrible daycare and might end up having to resign and taking care of your LO yourself (which I am currently feeling like it right now)

Secondly, the way how she despise her mom for feeding the baby with the TV on.

Do you know how much time does your mom have every day in order to settle the house chores and your LO? Very little. That's why she uses any mean to feed your LO which includes bribing her with TV.

Have you ever got so preoccupied with your LO that you didn't have time to cook your lunch and dinner? I bet your mom have too. Can you just let her do what she needs to do so that your LO is happy and content so that she, in return has the time to settle other chores?

What? You expect your mom to be patient and slowly feed LO for 1 hour?

Then, your father no need to eat lunch & dinner meh?

Thirdly, on how she is trying to become a perfect mom by not wanting to do wrong.

COME ONNNNNNN!!

No one can become a perfect parent. Haven't you read of that fact? Haihhhh.

Yes I understand that you don't want your LO to watch TV at all coz all the parenthood books said that TV is not good for LO.

But have you ever considered if that is the only way to keep your LO brain busy so that her mouth can open wide during feeding time, then just let it be - for the sake of your mom's time.

Meanwhile, when you bring your LO back home and feed her dinner, feed her the way that you want. You might get lucky if eventually your LO won't need the TV on during her feeding time.

Don't blame your mom and complain so much on the group larrr...

If you don't like how she takes care of your LO, just resign and babysit your own LO.

Apa susah?